A step-by-step planning system that turns the most overwhelming season of your life into one clear next step at a time. Built by a mom who has been exactly where you are.
Maybe you're still deciding. Maybe the papers are already moving. Either way, your brain is running the same loop at all hours: the custody questions, the money questions, and the scariest one of all, what am I forgetting?
Lawyers are expensive. Google is chaos. Your group chat means well but has no idea. What you need is not more advice. It's a system that already knows every step, every document, and every question, so your only job is the next one.
Tap your stage. This is exactly how the planner meets you there.
This planner carries the checklist part, so you can carry yourself and your kids.
Eleven designed sections that walk you from "I think this is happening" to rebuilding your new life. Type directly into it on any device, or print it and write. 538 fillable fields, zero guesswork.
Financial Inventory Tracker, Post-Divorce Budget Planner, and the Shared Expenses & Child Support Log. Live dashboards, automatic math, and color alerts. Excel and Google Sheets.
One short email a day for your first week, each with a single action. By day seven you'll be more prepared than most people are months in.
The five stages of divorce, mapped, plus the first 5 steps that put you in control this week.
What to bring, what to ask, and the Commonly Missed Questions section: COBRA, beneficiaries, disability coverage, the business. The page women say is worth the whole planner.
Walk into mediation with a complete proposal: schedule frameworks, holiday tables, decision-making rules.
Every document, contact, court date, and deadline in one place. Nothing slips.
Word-for-word responses for the six hardest co-parenting conversations, written to stay calm and read well in court.
For the days the plan breaks: backup care roster, no-show protocol, sick kid decision tree.
Journal prompts for the hard days, the Pre-Decision Worksheet, and a support system builder that assigns your people actual roles.
The 90-day post-decree sweep, new routines that steady your kids, and a vision planner for the chapter that's actually yours.
Proof on paper that you're getting through it, stage by stage, with check-in prompts at every milestone.
Legal terms in plain English, co-parenting do's and don'ts, resource directory, and at-a-glance pages for your cabinet door.
These are not printable tables. They're working financial tools with live charts, automatic calculations, and color alerts. Open them in Excel or Google Sheets, type in the white cells, and watch the picture build itself.
Every account, asset, debt, and expense in one place. Your net worth and monthly picture calculate automatically, and the division tab has a watchdog column that flags anything not yet assigned in negotiations. Nothing gets missed. Nothing gets hidden.
The Before vs After tab documents exactly what life costs on your own, which is the number that matters in support conversations. Plus planned-versus-actual budgeting and a bill tracker that turns yellow at 7 days out and red when something's overdue.
Log the expense, pick who paid, done. It splits by your agreement percentage, keeps the running balance, and archives settled items as documentation. The parent with receipts wins those conversations.
Two tiny tastes of what the trackers do automatically. Nothing you type here is saved or sent anywhere.
The Financial Inventory Tracker does this across 30+ line items, then prints a one-page Negotiation Snapshot for mediation.
Log a few shared kid expenses. The Child Support Log splits them and keeps the running balance, with receipts.
Pick a framework. Purple is time with you, teal is time with their other parent. The planner walks you through choosing, adapting, and proposing the one that fits your kids.
Best for younger kids who struggle with long gaps away from either parent.
A 10-second version of the planner's Before vs After worksheet. Nothing you type here is saved or sent anywhere.
What surprised me most wasn't the paperwork or the lawyers. It was the questions nobody told me to ask until it was too late to ask them. The insurance details. The accounts I didn't know to look for. The custody logistics that only came up after everything was signed.
— Monica, and the reason this planner exists
You're considering divorce and want to be prepared before you say a word out loud
You're mid-process and drowning in documents, deadlines, and decisions
Your spouse handled the money and you need to see the whole picture, fast
Custody is the thing keeping you up at night and you want to arrive with a proposal
You're paying a lawyer by the hour and want every one of those hours to count
The divorce is done and you're ready to rebuild on purpose, not by default
Because a woman in crisis deserves better than a wall of clip art. Tap any page.
When I went through my own divorce, I was the organized one. Spreadsheets for everything. And I still got blindsided by the things nobody told me to ask about until the papers were already signed.
So I did what I do: I turned the whole mess into a system. Every checklist, script, and spreadsheet in this planner exists because at some point I needed it and couldn't find it. My job now is making sure the next mom walks in more prepared than I was.
You don't have to do this perfectly. You just have to do the next step. I'll hand you the list.
No. This is an organizational and planning system, not legal, financial, or therapeutic advice. It makes you dramatically more prepared for the professionals you work with, and it reminds you throughout to confirm state-specific rules with your lawyer.
Yes. The planner is built around the parts of divorce that are universal: documents, budgets, custody planning, communication, rebuilding. Where laws vary by state, it tells you exactly what to research and what to ask your lawyer.
Instantly, digitally. You get the fillable PDF planner (plus a print version), three spreadsheet files, and your 7-Day Kickstart emails start the same day. Nothing arrives in the mail, and nothing shows up with "divorce" on a shipping label.
Excel or free Google Sheets, on any computer. Each spreadsheet opens with a Start Here tab that walks you through your first session step by step, including exactly where to type and what calculates itself.
The Preparing stage of this planner is the single most valuable thing you can do before making any decision. Getting clear on your finances and options first means whatever you decide, you decide it informed.
Email support within 14 days and we'll make it right. No hoops.
